1. Be a gentleman
   The best sex starts way before any clothes come off. At least in a woman’s head. Like bad hygiene and a messy home are turn-offs for some women, then good manners, thoughtfulness and humor are a few good steps on the way to a good fuck. If she’s attracted to your personality, then she’s more likely to orgasm.

2. Two-in-one
   Skip the thought of sex as in-out-in-out. Think in creative ways where the both of you will be stimulated. Ask her to lay on her back with stretched legs. Lay down on top of her and put your arms around her shoulders, so the support is on your elbows. Move your chest against her cheek, so that you are able to stimulate her clitoris with the root of your penis. Focus on up-down movements instead of in-out movements.

3. Compliment her
   Compliments never go out of style. Women – no matter how they look – have many worries about how they look naked. Studies show that women who are ashamed of their bodies have less sexual experience and a bad sexual confidence. You have nothing to lose by complimenting her body, so share your excitement!

4. Spoil the top too
   Caress her breasts – not only the nipples, but caress the entire breast which is just as sensitive. Move gradually towards the nipples and be aware of how she reacts. Only caress the nipples when they are erect – then the blood circulation’s going crazy downstairs – which will increase her orgasm.

5. Touch without touching
   One thing many women love, is the slow escalation to their orgasm. Lay down beside her and press your hand against her – right above her clitoris. Let your ring finger and your middle finger glide over her outer labias. Press harder and harder. Press the palm of your hand down towards her clitoris, so that you stimulate her, without really touching.

6. Play explorer
   Explore her body. Try out many different ways to stimulate her. The first stop on your journey – the G-spot, which is located two-four centimeters up her. Gently massage around the G-spot with your fingers. Most women love that – if not, try something new!

7. Take it easy
   Just as much as you think about lasting longer, just as much your woman is thinking on not taking too long to climax. That can end in her faking an orgasm – to make you happy. For an average women it takes between 15-40 minutes to reach an orgasm. So don’t chase them. A Swedish study shows that the most important thing to make a woman climax is making her relax. Tell her that you have all night. Show her how much she turns you on, when she’s writhing in pleasure. Then she’s more likely to orgasm.

8. Read her body
   To many, oral sex is the safe way to go to make a woman orgasm. Keep an eye on her hips to read what rhythm she likes it in. Listen to her gasps and moans, how she wants your caresses. Keep an eye on her orgasm – put your hand on her stomach and you’ll feel the orgasm when her muscles contract.

9. Let her lead the battle
   When you reach your point of no return, then there’s literally nothing more to return to – ejaculation is inevitable. It’s not like that for women. She can lose the spirit halfway to her orgasm, if you stop doing something or start doing something else. That does not mean you have to try something else, but if you feel that she’s on her way towards an orgasm – keep going till she finishes.

10. The lady always comes first
    A rule that applies not only when it comes to opening doors – but also when it comes to orgasms. In the perfect world you climax at the same time, but when that not happens then the best way is to let the woman climax first. If you touch her clitoris for a long time, she can lose the sensitiveness, so she wont orgasm later. So satisfy her before you set all sails.      

    

Yes, FINALLY, I have PERMANENT internet at my new home, so this weekend will be spend on one thing and one thing only - which is pleasing you with sexy updates! 

Stay tuned, this weekend will be steamy. 

Today it’s Valentine and I want to remind everyone of you to love, desire and respect your partner. But most of all, I want to remind you all to have hot, passionate sex on a day like this; celebrate your love life, your sex life. Spice it up, do it hard, do it tenderly. Have one Hell of a Valentine’s Day!

- T.

I’m sorry I haven’t been posting anything new; I’ve been moving to a new place. There’s no internet there, so I’m screwed until I get it up and running. I’ll try the best I can to post something new this week; but bare with me, I need to get settled in the new place and then it’ll rain with sexy and dirty tips.

I’m going on a little love-trip to London with my partner and wont be back and posting before Monday. Keep up the questions and I’ll answer them when I return. 

You guys are awesome, thanks for following and taking an interest in this blog. 

T.